當孩子有過錯時,家長往往一味責備孩子,甚至打孩子,不講批評技巧,結果往往事與願違。那麼,家長批評孩子時,應注意掌握哪些技巧呢?


 


   1、最好單獨進行,勿使孩子當眾丟臉,傷害心靈。


 


   2、批評前,先表揚一些優點,用優點消滅缺點,孩子樂於接受。


 


   3、對事不對人,勿過分強調孩子的過失,重點應放在如何改上。


 


   4、態度要和善,用詞可嚴但不能說髒話;聲音可高但不能大喊大叫;應莊重但不可失態,切勿盛氣呵斥,咄咄逼人。


 


   5、簡明扼要,抓住要害,嚴肅指出錯誤,不要說個沒完,嘮叨不止。


 


   6、一旦有錯,及時批評,日後多提醒,防患於未然。


 


   7、批評時全家意見要統一,但不要七嘴八舌一塊訓斥,孩子有悔改意時就要原諒,鼓勵其上進,堅持耐心說服,不可多次責備。


 


   8、要根據孩子不同性格採取不同的方式:性格外向的孩子受責備後會產生羞愧、痛苦但很快就會恢復常態;而性格內向、膽小敏感的孩子受到責備後會產生失望、壓抑的情緒,批評時對他們尤其要注意態度溫和,語氣婉轉,否則,就會造 ​​成孩子對父母的疏遠、反抗。


 


   9、批評應從愛護孩子,提高其品德的願望開始,以信任孩子能改正錯誤的態度結束。


 


   10、成功的批評應達到讓孩子明辨是非,內化為自我批評和激勵的目的。



 




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